by David Cote | Jun 12, 2025 | Identity
Leading Before I Was ReadyAlways Ask Why I Feel UnqualifiedThe Real Failure Happened EarlierWhat Makes a LeaderFeel Unqualified—But Not Unwilling There’s a difference between knowing you’re not ready—and realizing you never really were. I remember the...
by David Cote | Jun 8, 2025 | Identity
Truth #1: You’re Wired for Depth, Not DysfunctionTruth #2: Intensity Often Feels Like IsolationTruth #3: You Don’t Have to Apologize for Your WiringTruth #4: Self-Awareness Makes Intensity a StrengthTruth #5: God Gave You Fire for a ReasonEmbrace It—Don’t Tone It Down...
by David Cote | Jun 7, 2025 | Identity
The Day Fatherhood Changed Me ForeverBreaking the Cycle of Fatherhood PatternsFatherhood Beyond BloodlinesHow Fatherhood Keeps Sharpening MeThe Takeaway for Men Fatherhood didn’t just make me a better man—it exposed me. Not in a way that left me ashamed, but in a way...
by David Cote | Jun 4, 2025 | Identity
What Used to Trigger ItWhat the Spiral Looked Like Back ThenWhat It Looks Like NowWhat Breaks the SpiralThe Power of ResponsibilitySpiritually, What ChangedFinal ThoughtsWant a Simple Way to Stay on Track? I didn’t know to call it shame. For most of my life, I just...
by David Cote | Jun 3, 2025 | Identity
Shame Doesn’t Change You—It Just Keeps You StuckWhat Shame Really Sounds Like & Why Shame Doesn’t Change YouHow Shame Shows Up in Habits & Why Shame Doesn’t Change YouThe Weight of Religious ShameThe Day It Shifted: Realizing Shame Doesn’t Change YouMy New Way...
by David Cote | May 30, 2025 | Identity
Laziness Wasn’t My ProblemThe Real Difference Between Lazy and ExhaustedYou’re Not Lazy—You’re Living Without a RhythmYour Identity Isn’t LazyReady to Reset? If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, “Why can’t I just get it together? Why am I so...
